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In-person counselling and psychotherapy in Spitalfields, East London, and online across the UK.

Hopeful Tides

Counselling & psychotherapy 

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​​Self-Harm Support

Creating space to understand and respond to difficult coping behaviours

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Understanding what  self-destructive behaviours are helping you to manage

Self-Destructive behaviours can serve an important function, even when it feels distressing or confusing. I offer a supportive space to explore what sits beneath these behaviours and to develop alternative ways of coping that feel safer and more manageable.

My approach to this work often involves:

  • Understanding self-harm as a way of coping with overwhelming feelings, rather than something to be judged or eliminated.

  • Exploring what self-harm or self-injury may be expressing, including distress that feels hard to hold or put into words.

  • Working with the role self-harm plays, including regulation, relief, or a sense of control when other options feel unavailable.

  • Creating space to reduce shame and begin to speak more openly about what has been held privately.

  • Gradually finding alternative ways of responding to distress that feel possible and manageable over time.

If you’d like to explore other areas I work with, you can find them here.

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